https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-11-12/nsw-train-fall-incident-milsons-point/107377826
I hope this young man survives, parents please talk to your kids about the dangers of doing things like this. Kids you are not indestructible, know the dangers and don’t tempt fate! Life is so fragile and I have seen countless young people in spirit with regrets and some can’t move on in the spirit world because of their loved one’s grief.
I have felt it personally when a friend’s 15 year old daughter died in a car crash through misadventure many years ago. I never met her in life, only straight after she passed away, and the pain and suffering she went through, and her family’s pain and suffering. She didn’t get the chance to reach adulthood. Can you imagine not just what her family’s suffering was like; but also me as her stepmother’s friend and having never met her, felt like? It was horrible, absolutely horrible and I will never forget that traumatic experience as long as I live. It was gut wrenchingly sickening for me.
A moment of stupidity or carelessness is all it takes for a life to be gone. I want to get this message through to young people and their parents, they only way I can think of is, survivors going into schools and colleges to speak directly of their own personal experiences and mediums that have the deceased come through in spirit to let their loved ones know what happened and how they feel that pain that their loved ones go through after losing them. That feeling, I would not wish on anyone.
Can you imagine all the most terrifying and sickening, scary feelings you have experienced rolled into one? That is what it feels like and it never stops. It never leaves your mind and you will do anything to make it go away. So bear that in mind when you do something that is dangerous, don’t put your life at risk for a stupid moment of internet attention, that is not fame, it’s stupidity. Your life is like gold and is irreplaceable, the trauma of your death lasts a lifetime for your loved ones, for a stupid moment of egoism.
Have you ever given a single thought to how it affects your family and friends? What about the cost of a funeral that your parents may not have the money for. Or the rehabilitation that you go through should you survive, and will you be brain damaged and need a caregiver for the rest of your life. Meanwhile those who were with you at the time have move on and keep their distance from you.
Some don’t care about you and just casually move on; with the attitude of; oh well lucky it wasn’t me. They don’t care about what happened to you, they are shallow individuals that look out for themselves and nobody else.
That is the reality in this world. I know from years of experience what that feels like as a victim of other people’s actions, not that I did things like this. But the distance people put between you and them is something that I have experienced when I have been injured. People are sometimes just indifferent to others suffering and that’s a fact of life.
People can be very insensitive and just move on, they easily get over your serious injuries, disability or death like it is just another day. Your loved ones do not. They live the rest of their lives suffering and thinking what could they do to have prevented your injury or death. Do you really want to put your loved ones through this? Please stop and think this through before you do something that cannot be undone.
We have just gone through Remembrance Day, that pain and suffering is still with many of us to this very day. We cannot walk away from this pain. Your death or severe injuries and disability is no different. It is painful and traumatic to your loved ones.
Please stop and think before you do something stupid, how will this affect my family and friends if this all goes wrong. There is also the financial burden to your parents, even the potential loss of employment due to your actions that can cause your parents to give up work, and can’t pay the mortgage on their house because the money goes to your medical expenses. That is a very selfish thing that can destroy your family, through no fault of their own. It is on you the individual, your ego’s actions that set forth a chain reaction of events that you didn’t factor in, if things go wrong. Your actions have a flow on effect one way or the other.
I remember kids that went to high school with me ( I am in my 60’s now) that are no longer here and I think of the pain their families have gone through. Friends that have lost their child and the pain that they feel, and I would give anything for their pain and suffering to end. I also have my own pain and grief that I live with every single day from the pain of loss of two children, and the flow on effects. There is no way that I would ever wish this suffering on anyone. This pain and trauma is really indescribable, it needs to be felt by the individual to be understood. Nobody experiences this suffering the same way either and the depth of the long term effects of this suffering. So please think about your actions, talk to your mates about these things and how it affects everyone around you.
Does it take being taken to a mortuary or a rehabilitation centre and seeing first hand the consequences to get the message across? If that is what it takes then you have a serious problem.
