As
a Medium I have had the experience of feeling grief from the other side. This
happened to me last year after a friend lost her step daughter in a car crash.
This young girl Tonni was a passenger in a car that crashed, and died at
the scene of the crash. She came to me to tell me about what happened to her
and to tell her family about her little sister Eve being overcome with
grief.
Tonni felt her sister's grief and had no way to tell her that she is ok, and
not suffering. However, Tonni was distressed at seeing her sister so
distraught with losing her sister that she wanted someone to tell her
that she is ok. Eve must let it go of the pain in her heart.
The feeling for me was this crying for no reason and being upset without
knowing why. I could see a blond-haired girl in my third eye (that is how I see
spirits usually). She was very sad. The feeling was gut- wrenching,
unbelievably gut-wrenching to experience. I had never felt such a horrible
feeling of loss and sadness. I just wanted it to stop.
What Tonni was telling me was that her little sister Eve was
inconsolable with her loss. Tonni couldn't move on until Eve was ok. I was
able to relay this message to my friend. She in turn told me the blond-haired
girl is Eve. Tonni has dark hair.
Tonni came to me a few times with messages for her family in the weeks
after her death. She has moved on now. She left me with a message and a feeling
that I cannot forget.
So many people take life for granted and that nothing will happen to them. When
it does it has a ripple effect if you like that flows on to all that know them.
The pain and suffering is unimaginable until you feel it for
yourself. Sometimes the spirit of the loved one that has passed on will
not rest until they get the chance to tell someone that they are sorry for
causing the pain and suffering.
Sometimes the spirit of a loved one will hang around to pass a message on to a
family member or a friend to say, I am ok don't worry about me I am happy, but
I am worried about so and so, please give them my love and a message from
me.
The Human soul cannot die only the physical body does as it says in the bible.
We only come to this Earth to learn and then return back to our natural state
of being a spiritual being. We are Spiritual beings having a Physical world
experience not the other way around. We are all connected to Spirit. That
link can never be cut no matter what. We are all loved by Spirit unconditionally.
Copyright by Alex Fulford 2010 14 th
October 2009
