Over
the course of many years, I meet truly wonderful people. It is a wonderful
pleasure to be able to give my clients readings. We both enjoy the wonderful
energy that comes through from spirit.
However, on the very rare occasion some clients might have a very difficult, or
even a few very difficult issues going on in their lives. This is most
distressing for them. As they are not sure how to deal with the issues.
Unfortunately, we are not issued with an instruction book when we incarnate on
this earth, so we have to wing it so to speak.
When the said clients come to a psychic or clairvoyant, they bring with them
all this energy that is very distressing to them. This distressing energy does
affect the psychic or clairvoyant. It is very draining for us. Some of us more
so than others. It is important that people understand this. Any emotional
distress will also affect the quality of the reading too. And what the reader
wishes is, to give you the very best quality of reading that they can, in the
space of time allotted for each reading.
We are all responsible for our own lives, and the situations that we find
ourselves in. It is not for others to sort out someone else's problems. We have
all come into this world to learn lessons. We have agreed in spirit to the
contract that we have for the life that we are given. How can one learn and
grow spiritually with someone else doing the lesson for us? It is impossible to
do so.
Getting back to the energy situation though, a distressed person unknowingly
dumps their negativity on the psychic or clairvoyant. We are not councillors or
psychologists. That is never our function, we are only here to read your cards
that you yourself have drawn.
We are not responsible for what happens in a client’s life. We simply read what
is in the cards, a reader must in no way, what so ever get involved in the life
of the client, as that is unprofessional. We are not to be used as a
24-hour advice service or anything else. That is selfish and inconsiderate to
treat anyone in such a manner.
We psychics and clairvoyants have our own lives too. We have families and
duties just the same as everyone else. We have our personal problems too.
When we have problems, we have to resolve the problems by ourselves. There is
no one there to help us in our time of need. When we are overloaded with
issues, we can go into shut-down and are unable to conduct readings for a
minimum of 24 hours.
We can be shut down by spirit. Due to being over loaded by stress
that other people have dumped on us. Some of us readers are not able to tell a
client that they, are over stepping the boundaries. So, this is where spirit
steps in and shuts the reader down for a bit. In order to rest and re-balance
their bodies energies. If not, the reader could become very ill.
We must not have our vulnerability compromised by others We must have
regular breaks and rest. We owe this to our families also. Most of us are
parents after all, and have our children to care for.
So we must all set boundaries and wish for them to be respected.
Peace and love
Thursday, 25 July 2013
